Root down to rise up

"Carry your body, but please do not let your body carry you!  Walking in the streets, one can see people heavily following their bodies.  Their heads lean forwards, pulled by their necks, on their insecure legs, their feet scarcely touching the ground.  It is evident that they are slaves to their bodies, following the whispering of their minds." – Vanda Scaravelli

Students often tell me that they are puzzled by their difficulty with balancing poses. While I realize they are speaking of poses like Vrksasana (Tree), Garudasana (Eagle), and Ardha Chandrasana (Half Moon), we need to remember that EVERY yoga posture is a balancing asana. We should always be challenging ourselves to create an equal distribution of weight among the parts of the body that are contacting the earth.

The most basic of yoga postures, Tadasana (Mountain) is often referred to by the command to attention: Samasthiti; Sama = equal, Sthiti = balance. It is sometimes said that in all yoga poses, one searches for the balance of Tadasana – hence the reason this pose is taught at the beginning of nearly every yoga class. While small children have to make a determined effort to learn to balance their weight between their two feet, we all assume to have mastered the art of standing at this point in our lives. However, if we look down at our feet while standing we may notice some interesting things. Are our feet parallel? Are all 10 toes facing directly forward? Is the weight equally distributed between the ball and heel of each foot and between the right and left foot?  While this may seem trivial, imbalances at the base will weaken the entire structure over time. A beautiful, soaring building, no matter how elegantly built up above, will collapse on itself without a solid foundation.

Let us consider Virabhadrasana I (Warrior I). The focus should not be just on the front knee bending.  The pose is just as much about the back leg lengthening and both feet bearing equal weight in the posture.  I often see students wobbly and unstable in this pose, not because they lack sufficient muscular strength, but because they are too focused in what I call “the drama of the pose.” “I’m really going to embody this pose by bending REALLY deeply into my front knee and reaching REALLY high with my arms! I am even going to drop my head back and look up today!” And then, uh-oh, we lose our balance. In our quest to strive higher, we forget the importance of the base and lose our grounding. We should reach to find that “edge” in our poses, but never at the sacrifice of weakening our foundation.

I often remind students in class to stay focused on the Earth by noticing the parts of their bodies that are contacting the ground. That is the anchor and the foundation of that pose and their body weight should be equally distributed among those contact points. If we can be diligent about these principles in the basic poses (Sukhasana, Tadasana, Virabhadrasna), then balancing in other poses will become much easier. We must root down to rise up: the grounding is primary and the exciting “drama of the pose” is secondary.

The legs and feet are governed by Muladhara (First chakra), the chakra of security and stability, thus moving our awareness down into our legs and feet provides us with a remarkably comforting feeling. Bringing awareness down into our base is like coming home. Beyond the mat, it is not so different. It is said that we develop First chakra deficiencies when we have to deal with big life changes such as relocating, changing jobs, relationship struggles, or incurring serious physical injuries. When these events occur, it feels as though the rug has been pulled out from under our feet. Feeling uprooted and unstable, our reaction is usually to try to rationalize events in our minds.  However, we would probably find it more helpful in these situations to get out of heads (the top of the structure) and instead come home inside of our bodies to get grounded again.

I once asked a guy where he lived and he replied, “Mother Earth is my home.” What a great perspective to have! Everything around us is always changing, but instead of getting swept up in the “drama of the pose,” can we learn to feel at home and grounded wherever we go? When we move to a new place, as our relationships change, or even as our bodies change, can we find one constant, one anchor, the foundation of our lives? Call it Energy, call it God, call it Allah, call it Soul, call it Love. The belief in that One underlying power is my foundation. What is yours?

 Playlist: 1 hour Uplifting Yoga Flow

 Que Bonito - Jose Padilla 

 Times Like These - Jack Johnson 

 Here Comes the Sun - The Beatles 

 Dreams Be Dreams - Jack Johnson 

 Turn Your Lows Down Low - Bob Marley & Lauryn Hill 

 Michelle - Ben Harper and the Innocent Criminals 

 Ghostwriter - RJD2 

 Mangalam - Prem Joshua 

 Hard Sun - Eddie Vedder 

 Everything Will Flow - London Suede 

 Wild World - Cat Stevens 

 Lying in the Hands of God - Dave Matthews Band 

 Alone in Kyoto - Air

Gratitude

I woke up this morning feeling an overwhelming sense of gratitude. Of course I am grateful for the usual things: the beautiful place that I live in, my warm bed, the food in my kitchen, my healthy body, my loved ones … But I also had a new realization. I am actually grateful for the painful events that occurred in my life last month. 

In last month’s Inspirations I wrote about “Change.” As fate would have it, the topic turned out to be a very fitting one for me when I was unexpectedly terminated from the yoga studio that I had taught at for 6 years, a place that had felt like my second home. Compounding my initial feelings of shock, betrayal, and deep hurt was the challenge of facing the major adjustments that this would present in my life and career. Change can be scary and oftentimes it is very unwelcome, arriving when we least expect it and shaking up our secure world. An anonymous quote states: “God comforts the disturbed and disturbs the comfortable.”  

This “disaster” has forced me to step out of my comfort zone, to exert myself in new ways, and ultimately to recognize my vast potential. If this event had not occurred, I probably would have remained in my secure space, never reaching higher. Because we only see the world from our limited vantage point, it can be very disappointing when things don’t work out the way that we wanted or planned. But perhaps what seems like a hardship now is really just preparation for the next step in our personal growth.  Perhaps what seems like a loss is really just clearing space for the next big thing to arrive in our lives. This realization transformed my attitude from one of dismay to one of acceptance.

Feeling the tremendous outpouring of love and support from my students this past month and finding new doors opening for me at every turn has really caused me to remember: 

The Universe does not always give us what we want, but it always gives us what we need. 

Instead of holding on tightly to the shattering “self” that I thought myself to be, I just let go, trusting that whatever happens will be for my own highest good and learning. As I have practiced relaxing into life instead of trying to fix it, my outlook has shifted from mere acceptance into deep gratitude. I am grateful for everything, even the challenges, for through them I have come to know myself and my Dharma (life purpose) in a more profound way.

With Thanksgiving coming up at the end of the month, I think that November is an apt time to practice gratitude. Gratitude involves a subtle shift in perspective. Instead of focusing on what you wish was different, you turn your attention to your many blessings. It is not about changing what is, but rather about having a willingness to trust that everything is as it should be. Give thanks for both the blessings currently in your life, as well as those yet to come. 

Happy Thanksgiving. 

From my great Soul to your great Soul,

Namaste.

The Guest House

This being human is a guest house. 
Every morning a new arrival. 

A joy, a depression, a meanness, 
some momentary awareness comes
as an unexpected visitor. 

Welcome and entertain them all! 
Even if they're a crowd of sorrows, 
who violently sweep your house
empty of its furniture, 
still, treat each guest honorably. 
He may be clearing you out
for some new delight. 

The dark thought, the shame, the malice, 
meet them at the door laughing, 
and invite them in. 

Be grateful for whoever comes, 
because each has been sent
as a guide from beyond.
~ Rumi

Playlist: 1 Hour Yoga Flow

 Crazy Heart - Bahramji & Maneesh de Moor 

 Cosmopole - Cantoma 

 Elixir for Sunsets - Phobos 

 Africa - Cirque du Soleil 

 Porcelain - Moby 

 Om Narayana - Wade Imre Morissette 

 Jai's Dub Shack - Jai Uttal 

 Miracle - Afterlife 

 The Nomad - Niraj Chag 

 Imagine - Jack Johnson 

 Pure Essence - Maneesh De Moor

Change

As we say farewell to the summer and transition into autumn, we begin to notice changes in the weather, the temperature, the quality of the air, the intensity of the wind. We become aware of the length of daylight growing shorter as the nights become longer. We see the leaves changing color and then releasing, falling to the ground. And we are reminded of the transient nature of things. Nature blatantly shows us that nothing remains the same for long. In fact everything, including you, is constantly in flux, ever moving, growing, transforming.

Due to our fear of change and because of our desire to have something solid to hold on to, we expend a good deal of time and energy attempting to create a rigid image of ourselves. We try to label and define who we are. “I am like this. I am a Taurus. I am shy. I am physically weak. I do not like this kind of food. I am not a morning person.” Once we have defined ourselves, we spend even more energy trying to uphold this image that we have created. 

NOTHING WILL CAUSE YOU MORE PAIN THAN THIS!

You are so much more than the tiny, inflexible self that you have defined yourself as. Stop trying to hold on to this image and instead let it go. Reconnect to the You that lies beyond the constraints of your mind, the You that exists beyond your mere thoughts and rationalizations. Take time each day to close your eyes and experience being alive, without putting any words or labels on your feelings. Just pure, unadulterated feeling. Feel how you change and shift in each moment, riding the ebb and flow of your breath and of your life. Dive in and celebrate! We are the ones we’ve been waiting for…   

“There is a river flowing now, very fast. It is so great and swift that there will be those who will be afraid. They will try to hold on to the shore. They will feel they are being torn apart and suffer greatly. Know that the river has its destination. The elders say we must push off into the middle of the river, keep our eyes open and our heads above water. See who is in there with you and celebrate. At this time in history we are able to take nothing for personally, least of all ourselves, for the moment we do that, our spiritual growth comes to a halt. The time of the lone wolf is over. Gather yourselves; banish the word “struggle” from your attitude and your vocabulary. All that we do now must be done in a sacred way and in celebration. We are the ones we’ve been waiting for.”  ~ from a Hopi elder
 

Playlist: Upbeat FLow

 The Long Road - Eddie Vedder & Nusrat Fateh Ali Khan 

 Slow Down - Moby 

 Inside - Moby 

 Gamelan - Cirque du Soleil 

 Connection - Stereo MCs 

 The Connection - Travis 

 Essarai - Cantoma 

 Moonsmith - Cantoma 

 Pandajero - Cantoma 

 Blessed to be a Witness - Ben Harper 

 Let Go - Frou Frou 

 Feel Good Inc. - Skye 

 Storm of Prayers - Craig Kohland & Shaman's Dream

Beyond the Physical

When a student asked one of my teachers if he thought her yoga practice was improving, he replied, “Ask your loved ones.”  The true signs of an advancing yogi are not just a stronger and more supple body.  Yoga practiced regularly and properly should create a calmer, more caring, centered, tolerant, patient, and loving individual, and who would know better if you are improving in these areas than your loved ones?

It is easy to get caught up with solely the physical aspects of our practice, but then we risk forgetting the deeper gifts that yoga has to offer.  We are more than just a collection of bones and muscles.  A bendy back, a perfectly executed arm balance, and a flat stomach may be visually appealing but yoga is not a performance nor is it a “spectator sport.”  It doesn’t matter how your practice looks; it matters how it feels.  How can you move in a way that allows the most possible freedom and harmony within your whole being?

As a yoga teacher, I think of the words and cues I say as “suggestions,” not as the absolute and only way.  When it comes down to it, I can’t feel what you feel and I can’t know your inner experience in each pose.  That is why my students will often hear me say, “Listen inside.  There is more than one right answer.”

Yoga teaches us to get out of the habit of waiting for someone else to tell us what to do and how to do it.  Our practice teaches us to turn inward and trust our inner voice.  Yoga is an internal experience, a process of peeling back the layers of ego to uncover our True Selves.

Next time you find yourself in a yoga class comparing your poses and your body to the other people in the room, stop.  Close your eyes.  Focus inside.  Feel your breath moving you. How does it feel to be alive in this body today?  Be with whatever the experience is for you right now.  Let your body be breathed, be moved, intuitively… There is more than one right answer.

“People follow different paths, straight or crooked, according to their temperament, depending on which they consider best, or more appropriate – and all reach You, just as all rivers enter the ocean.” ~ The Upanishads   


Playlist #2: Mellow Mix 

 Gymnopedies - Claude Debussy 

 Bach Cello Concerto - Yo-Yo Ma 

 Together - Wade Imre Morisette 

 Sunrise - Norah Jones 

 One Flight Down - Norah Jones 

 In My Place - Coldplay 

 In the Lord’s Arms - Ben Harper 

 Free Fallin’ (Live) - John Mayer 

 Wild Horses - Rolling Stones 

 Toes - Norah Jones 

 Stop This Train - John Mayer 

 Gravity - John Mayer 

 Come Away With Me - Norah Jones 

 Beloved One - Ben Harper 

 Imagine - John Lennon 

 Sri Ram Jai Ram - Krishna Das 

 Such Great Heights - Iron & Wine